When most people have success in their chosen filed, they usually taper back on their pursuit of greatness. It’s because they think they’ve finally figured things out.
I’m a firm believer that success comes in waves. There are good times and bad times (or at least “less good'” times).
I’m sure you’ll agree that one of the best feelings in the world is when you’re living the high life and everything seems to be going right for you. You feel like a champion.
Unfortunately, if you get carried away with experiencing all the goodies life has to offer, you may not see potential rough patches coming until it’s too late.
Here are two things you can do to help manage the high of being on a winning streak in life.
Look outside your sphere of influence for advice
The times when you’re succeeding like crazy may not seem like the ideal time to look for feedback, but it definitely is. I highly recommend getting advice from someone outside of your sphere of influence so that you’re able to get an objective opinion.
The people around you care too much about you, and their vision may be clouded as to what’s really going on in your life. They judgement may be especially fuzzy when it comes to your short-comings. It may also be that they don’t want to upset you, so they just keep small issues to themselves.
Don't be greedy
The second think you can do when you’re succeeding it to do whatever it takes to not be greedy. When you share the spotlight, everyone wins. Look for ways to pass around the praise and you’ll encourage those around you to take more ownership towards the success of the team.
It always impresses me how much you can lean from the people you work with on a daily basis. Sometimes it’s the most un-assuming person who will give you a jaw-dropping insight to move things forward. The key is to listen openly.
Who knows. You might be able to take a suggestion from someone, mix in your own substantial knowledge and experience, and come up with something brilliant. It’s more than likely your co-workers ideas are very good already.
Remember that even if you’re the best of the best; when you collaborate with other people, you’ll end up much further ahead than going it alone. Plus, what fun is it at the top if there’s nobody there to share all the fun?
Check out my other post, “The Worst Car in The Parking Lot.” It has insights on what you can do when you’re feeling like you’re on the bottom of the heap.
